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my best friend is gone
« on: June 17, 2007, 10:26:42 am »
I can hardly even write this. My Great Dane Tisha was fine yesterday. She was running around the yard, ate dinner, etc. She even got up and played a bit this morning. Then this afternoon she collapsed. She couldnot stand and couldn't even sit. We tookd her to the vet to find she had tumors on her organs, her liver, bladder, and gallbladder.Sh e was 11years old in April, and operating was not an option. he said one of tumors had ruptured. SHe probably wouldn't even last the night. We decided to end her misery. My poor girl wagged her tail when she heard my voice but couldn't even lift her head. I don't think I have ever felt this much pain. I feel like any minute she is going to come in the room and lay her big head in my lap...
-Jodi
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Thorn- 8 year old fawn male dane
Morgayne- Wolfhound pup
Gracie- Merelequin (deaf) dane pup


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Tisha...my best friend, I miss you girl.

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Re: my best friend is gone
« Reply #1 on: June 17, 2007, 10:33:06 am »
Jodi, i am soooo sorry to hear this. *HUG*

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Re: my best friend is gone
« Reply #2 on: June 17, 2007, 10:50:40 am »
oh im so sorry, i cant imagine... Tisha was lucky to have a mother that was willing to  make the best decision even though it was painfully hard, what a good person you are. we'll be here for you if you need anything.
 that she wagged her tail for you even with all the pain says to me that the pain didnt matter because you were there, what a beautifull relationship.
i'll keep you in my thoughts and prayrs
Christina
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Re: my best friend is gone
« Reply #3 on: June 17, 2007, 11:16:46 am »
Awww , I am so very sorry for your loss  :'(
-Amy
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Re: my best friend is gone
« Reply #4 on: June 17, 2007, 01:24:26 pm »
WHEN TOMORROW STARTS WITHOUT ME
Author Unknown
When tomorrow starts without me,
And I'm not there to see;
The sun will rise and find your eyes
All filled with tears for me.
I wish so much you wouldn't cry
The way you did today,
Remembering how I'd lay my head
In your lap that special way.
I know how much you love me,
As much as I love you,
And each time that you think of me,
I know you'll miss me too.

But when tomorrow starts without me.
Please try to understand,
That an angel came and called my name
And petted me with her hand.
She said my place was ready,
In Heaven far above,
And that I'd have to leave behind
All those I dearly love.

But, as I turned to heel away,
A tear fell from my eye,
For all my life I never thought
That I would have to die.
I had so much to live for,
So many sits and downs to do,
It seemed almost impossible,
That I was leaving you.

I thought about our lives together,
I know you must be sad,
I thought of all the love we shared,
And all the fun we had.

Remember how I'd nudge your hand,
And poke you with my nose?
The frisbee I would gladly chase,
The bad guy, I'd "bark and hold".

If I could relive yesterday,
Just even for awhile,
I'd wag my tail and kiss you,
Just so I could see you smile.

But, then I fully realized,
That this could never be;
For emptiness and memories
Will take the place of me.
And when I thought of treats and toys,
I might miss come tomorrow,
I thought of you and when I did,
My dog-heart filled with sorrow.

But then I walked through Heaven's gate,
And felt so much at home;
As God looked down and smiled at me,
From His beautiful golden throne.
He said, "This is eternity,
And now we welcome you,
Today your life on earth is past,
But here it starts anew.

I promise no tomorrow,
But today will always last;
For you see, each days's the same day,
There's no longing for the past.
Now you have been so faithful,
So trusting, loyal and true;
Though there were times you did things,
You knew you shouldn't do.

But good dogs are forgiven,
And now at last you're free;
So won't you sit here by my side,
And wait right here with me?"
So when tomorrow starts without me,
Don't think we're far apart.
For every time you think of me,
I'm right there, in your heart.
Michelle, Butt, Tub and Everybirdie

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« Reply #5 on: June 17, 2007, 01:33:40 pm »
Oh Jodi, I am so sorry.  :'(  We never have long enough with them, but you did an incredibly loving thing for Tisha today.  I'm just so sorry that it leaves you with such pain.  :'(  Please let us know if there is anything that we can do to help.  ((hugs)) 
Marie

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Daisy a 9 y/o Golden/Lab mix
Sammy a 6-7(?) y/o Great Pyrenees adopted 3/07
Cassie a 3 y/o Pyr/Mystery Snuggle Bunny mix adopted 2/07

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Cara 1989-2001 Great Pyrenees
Sally ? - 1993 Dobie(rescued '92)
Halley 2002-2006 Great Pyrenees

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« Reply #6 on: June 17, 2007, 06:25:33 pm »
im so sorry... you are in my prayers
"My newfoundlands live my life as passionately as i live theirs"
"I slip the hater of what i've become.  they slip the halter of what they've been, and we live together, passionately, changed"
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« Reply #7 on: June 17, 2007, 08:17:10 pm »
Thanks everyone. It is so hard on everyone in the house. Thorn my other dane, and Morgan my pup IW have been pacing and Morgan keeps whining. I think they know. The birds even let me sleep in today before they started their squawking. I woke up wishing it was all a bad dream...
-Jodi
Mom to:
Thorn- 8 year old fawn male dane
Morgayne- Wolfhound pup
Gracie- Merelequin (deaf) dane pup


1996-2007
Tisha...my best friend, I miss you girl.

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« Reply #8 on: June 17, 2007, 08:39:01 pm »
Nothing can prepare you for such a sudden, heartbreaking loss. You are so brave, so strong, and so loving to have made the decision you did. Take comfort in knowing that Tisha's running around healthy and as happy as a lark on the other side of the bridge.
Rosie - Newfoundland

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« Reply #9 on: June 17, 2007, 09:03:15 pm »
So very sorry this for your loss..prayers to you and yours
Lisa
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« Reply #10 on: June 17, 2007, 09:11:22 pm »
I just got this off my camera...it was taken Saturday when the 3 big dogs were actually in one place.
-Jodi
Mom to:
Thorn- 8 year old fawn male dane
Morgayne- Wolfhound pup
Gracie- Merelequin (deaf) dane pup


1996-2007
Tisha...my best friend, I miss you girl.

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« Reply #11 on: June 17, 2007, 11:38:41 pm »
how are you today?
Christina
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« Reply #12 on: June 18, 2007, 03:44:11 am »
I am so very sorry for the loss of your Tisha. So sudden, I couldn't imagine how you're feeling. I realize how hard it is and my heart aches for you right now. You gave her the greatest gift by ending her pain for her when she could not...

My thoughts and prayers are with you. Know that Tisha is watching over you, and is patiently waiting for that day when you'll meet again.

I'm so sorry.

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« Reply #13 on: June 18, 2007, 11:06:05 am »
Jody, I'm so sorry that you are going through this. I'm glad you were able to be there with her in the end. Please take care.

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« Reply #14 on: June 18, 2007, 12:45:21 pm »
It's so hard when we have to say goodbye to our loved ones.  I'm sorry for your loss.  :'(