She is adorable Kandi, she has done sooooo much growing while you were gone, and Dane is one handsome man.
I think you are doing right in separating them, both for the aggresion and to let Jasimne eat in peace. I am sure everything will work out, but you will probably be a bit on your toes for awhile to make sure they (especially Dane) knows who is REALLY the Alpha in the family.
About people getting tired of you talking about this place and the people and dogs here, well hehe, my whole family is kinda just shaking their heads when I start, almost every evening when we go to bed, I start saying something, Chris now knows what is to come, so he sighs a bit and sometimes asks "how come we always seem to talk about BPO" hehe.
You have to post lots and lots of pics of your babies
Marit