OH Bryce - what happened? The big bad 2's are just not agreeing with you at all are they? I am not even sure what to advise- I know that we have had some aggression issues with Bella and the Rescue Remedy seems to help a little, but it wears off too quickly and I can be around all of the time to keep giving it to her. Hopefully you can get him neutered and soon.
And the cat- I laughed - Jake use to always steal the cat and walk around with it until it got old enough to understand how to use the claws. One day the cat decided enough was enough. Jake did not fair too well. But he dropped the cat with out me screaming at him to drop it.