Well, I don't know if this is technically RUDE, because it was just a little kid that said it, and I don't think he meant to be hurtful, but it certainly left an impression on me...
When we lived in Michigan, we had Gwen and Ranger out for a walk in the neighbor hood. A little boy (I have no clue how old - pretty young - not a toddler but nowhere near a pre-teen) who was outside playing came over to us and asked if he could pet them. As he was doing so, he was asking us questions about the dogs - their names, if they were a boy or girl, etc.Â
Then he pointed at Cabo and said "How old is that dog?". We told him that he was about 12 or 13 at that time (we weren't 100% sure, because he was a shelter dog, and we had never known his real birthday). Then he pointed at Gwen, and said "How old is that dog?". We told him she was about 4. Then he turned back to Cabo and pointed at him and said "THAT DOG IS GOING TO DIE SOON, ISN'T HE?".
Oh. My. God. I, of course, immediately burst into tears and began sobbing on the street corner. I eventually pulled it together enough to continue the walk, but I still couldn't stop crying.... Â
Now I realize that the kid wasn't old enough to realize that his comment was going to be hurtful, and that he was probably just going thru the process of figuring out the numbers, and that Cabo was older than Gwen, and that he was just old enough to figure out how long dogs live, BUT STILL!!!!
Ugh. Â