OK, so, re: the kitten issue (BTW, I also hope all goes well with Millie/Amelia!) I finally worked up my courage and talked to hubby this morning. I said, "Honey, it's like this - we have to keep two of the kittens. I can't help it, that's just how it is." I went on to talk about how I've fostered so so so many, and never had a problem loving them and letting them go until now. So he looks at me and says "The one with the circle stripes, and which other one?" Just like that. Like, no big deal. That stinker wanted the circley stripey kitty all along and didn't want to say any thing!! What a mush he is! I love him! So, we're keeping "his" pick, which doesn't have extra toes, but is fat and lovely. And, we're keeping one of my picks, a female with the extra toes, and a wild spotted marking on her like I've never seen before. I'm so excited!! Thanks for your words of encouragement. It wasn't even as big a deal as I thought it would be!