Well it's about time you checked in!
Thought you got lost in one of those casinos out your way. Haven't been many people posting petfinder dogs either, I guess they were waiting for you to return.
Don't worry too much about what the vet said. Vets can be good and still make an incorrect assumption. (After all, they spend 15 minutes with a dog, ask some questions and lump it into a category?) Work with the trainer and get his/her opinion. We have had people tell us that Sapphire has fear aggression, and others say no, she's going through one of those fearful periods. The girl is getting better about adults in the house and beginning to listen to commands with "stangers" around. She was able to walk the neighborhood last night with many many people on the street in costume and minimal barking, no shying away.
There's hope for Willow too!
Deena