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I would usually say it's Apollo, but in the last month, he and Onyx have been *discussing* the situation,  so for right now, it's in the air.



Zeus could care less...as long as his food bowl is filled, he can get on the bed to warm Mom's feet, and that there is *always* a ball in the house for him to obsess over, the rest of the world could go you-know-where.

I don't think a Newf will work for all of your ...specificati ons either. You stated at one point that the dog can't be clingy...Newfs are *very* social and people-orientated. They're not a dog that's going to stay in the background...t hey want to be right where you are...usually trying to involve themselves in whatever you're doing. They, for the most part, (there are always exceptions to the rule) want to be with their humans whenever possible, and they love to be loved on, and give love in return.

The exercise-level depends on the dog individually. No two are alike, and if your pup comes from "energetic" lines, they'll be more active, thus requiring more time.

Good luck

Aw heck, that doesn't sound bad at all. What a sweetie! I don't think you'll end up having too much issues. Just make sure that when they first are introduced, it's out in nuetral space, and just keep caution as your watchword for the first few days.

I've got a drama queen as well, so I ssssoooo know what you mean.

Slow and steady does it.......

Seriously, everything has to be done slow, and at Badger's comfort speed. Is the new addition male or female? Fixed? Is Badger?

Male to male is usually a ton of posturing, a bunch of bent feelings, and a longer period of adjustment. Females seems to adapt a bit easier, but it'll still take time.

Get them to meet outside of Badger's "territory" (his yard/house), a park or even a cul-de-sac will work. That way Badger doesn't have to deal with the intruder on his turf.

As far as in the house, don't let them be in the same room unsupervised for a while, until you're certain that both can be trusted. Expect that there will be some scuffles. They have to establish who's top dog (after the humans of course!) on their own, we can't decide it for them. My Vet said that as long as they are not drawing blood on each other, let them duke it out. They sound like they're killling each other, but they're really not.

I've managed to successfully live with three males. Zeus and Apollo have been with me for over two years now, and they still have their hormonal days. Onyx is our newbie, and he and Apollo are currently *determining* who's "king Fuzzy Butt"...

My thoughts with you and your family.

Wind to thy wings Barkley, you are loved, and will be missed.

That last shot has got to be the most precious thing I have ever seen!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Simply wonderful!

Wow, Blair, I'm sorry! You totally deserve some "couple" time!

I must have kissed a good-luck fairy at one time, because I don't have any in-laws this time around. Yup, my Hubby is estranged from his egg-donor (she abandonded him on a neighbor's doorstep when he was little....B*&^%CH!) and his father passed on years ago.

Now my ex's mother is a whole 'nother nightmare.....

My family really don't have a whole lotta contact, so I pretty much built my own "family" out of my close friends. We babysit for each other, and get together on holidays as well. That old saying of blood is thicker than water is just bub-kiss in my opinion.

I went there for my Honeymoon three years ago. I loved it!

To Eat -

Cheeseburger In Paradise....yo u just have to, it's an experience. It's on the main drag in Lahina.

Longie's (Not sure of the spelling, just ask a local where "Long-Es" is, they'll know!) It's just off the main drag in Lahina. Freaking fabulous!!!! (aaahhhhhhh - A'HI!)

Hard Rock - always fun!

There's tons of fabulous little spots all over Lahina that serve really great food. Don't be afraid to experiment, it's worth it!

To see -

Seven Sacred Pools. It's a ways from civilization, but ssssoooo worth the trip. PLan a full day for it. It's a very narrow highway drive, with falls to see/swim in all along the way, and then the Pools themselves.... .simply breathtaking.. .a very spirtual experience.

Black Sand Beach - very cool to see. (It's at the bottom of the Pools)

Have fun........and congrats!