Ok, just a quick background on whats going on and why I need advice. DH and I were separated for a while and recently got back together. Well I have Boo and he has a female, unspayed American Bulldog/Pitbull mix who is only a few months older than Boo. So in the beginning (of the two dogs getting together) Boo didn't really want to play that much with this other strange dog and just wanted to lay around (which she had started doing a lot of anyway recently). Now like two months later this whole dynamic has changed A LOT!
I at first thought that Maiden (DH's dog) was alpha, but now I'm not so sure. The tables have turned and now Maiden just wants to sit around and Boo is constantly harassing her. Always nipping at her ears, neck, back or whatever is available. Maiden wants no part of this and has decided she's going to hide with me whenever Boo is driving her nuts, which is every day. This morning I caught Boo with her mouth around Maiden's neck and Maiden on her back. So who is alpha (besides me)? Maiden gets really ornery if Boo gets too close to me while I'm doling out their dinner and will growl at her and give her a warning nip, but that's all she seems to do to her. Then this morning Boo had her by the neck. There is more to it also, like Boo constantly being in trouble doing things she never did before, or just did them rarely. I'm talking things like her getting into the garbage, chewing our daughters toys, barking at me, constantly begging food. Ok, even more, sorry this is a book here. The two of them when they do get going and Maiden wants to play, go rampaging thru the house to the tune of almost knocking out an air conditioner in a second floor window. Boo instigates most of this and will try and keep Maiden going with her. If I put the two of them outside they flop on the ground because its been so hot. Soooooo....any ideas on how to deal with two demon dogs??