Family...
Sometimes they really do make me wonder. I really hope that they just haven't replied yet due to something that's keeping them busy and not due to some negative feeling on their part. It's amazing to me how many people think that it's odd for a family to have more than 2 kids (and that it's any business of their's in the first place???
) When we were expecting our third son we had a few people say "Hey, have ya figured out what's causing it yet?" or other bizarre, crass remarks. It was offensive, but I learned to "consider the source" as they say. Also, it's amazing how much you can say back with just facial expressions (don't ask how I know). LMAO
I agree with Stella. If you can, let your husband handle his family. Hopefully, he'll say something that will have them saying nothing but positives by the time that they arrive. My FIL told my DH after the birth of our 3rd child "Finally, you chose a normal name". Good thing my husband handled that call! My FIL would've needed skin grafts if I'd been on that line, I wasn't taking any prisoners about then. LOL
Hang in there, you are a wonderful Mom and everyone should be thrilled to have a new little miracle in the family.