Aw, guys.
Thanks. She is getting rescue remedy every day. It doesn't really seem to be helping. And, as far as the UTI thing, I guess I could take her to get checked out for that...but it seems unlikely since she is peeing AND pooping in the house and her crate. She just isn't connecting with us AT ALL. Well, she is with me but when there is anyone else around, she just ignores them and then kind of ignores me, too.
And its weird...it doesn't seem like an energy issue...it really seems more like a nervous thing. I take her to the beach for an hour or two everyday. It doesn't really seem to impact her one way or the other.
Putting her in her crate helps, because she instantly calms in it. But, I can't keep her in there all the time! But, I basically can't trust her for ANY amount of time unsupervised, which really stresses me out. I know big paws take longer to mature and all, but she's 3 years old...its not like she is just a puppy.
Well, she has a potential adopter, so we'll see how that all works out. I'll keep you guys posted. Thanks for all the suggestions!!