I so hear you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!....I have a 34 yr. old brother that continuously disrespects my property, disregards my house rules & thereby disrespects ME!!!...It's always "no big deal" to everyone else in my family...The 2nd to last time he was here he crashed my computer (for the 2nd time) & it was "no big deal" even though I lost all of my pics of Pippin since we got him, all of my son & daughter's b-day pics, etc. etc...Last Friday I had an X-mas party & my family insisted that hye could not be the only one left out so they brought him...He got up & was dancing on on of the chairs to the dining room set that was my hubby's grandma's from her wedding!!!...Grandma is gone now & the dinette set was left to my hubby...When I told him to get down he argued with me & refused....Fin ally I had to scream at him that the chair was an heirloom, was very old & could not be replaced...Of coarse it was "well, he didn't know...it didn't break anyway, no big deal"...He WILL NOT be coming over here ever again...I do feel your pain!!!