What consequences have you given your kids for noncompletion of their chores? A time limit with a consequence is what they will face in the real adult world, and as parents, you owe it to the kids to prepare them to be successful. Practice saying that until you can say it to the kids without laughing.
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Random objects left on the floor are a safety issue. At one point, I guess her girls were maybe 9 and 7, and she told them on a Friday that they were going to practice fire safety and that if it was necessary for them to get out of their bedrooms fast, the mess on the floor could make them fall and not get out as fast. She said that anything left on their bedroom floors after they went to bed would now be considered trash and Mom would remove it for their own good.
After they went to bed, my sis went in their rooms with a laundry basket and took every single thing on the floor out that was not furniture or their slippers and locked it in the trunk of her car. She got several toys, their shared Game Boy and some games, and one girl's finished homework. The next night she got one girl's school shoes and sent her to school in old ratty sneakers. They got the important things back at Christmas; luckily for the kids that was only 2 weeks away.
Another thing she did was to not allow them to have friends over or leave the house unless their rooms were spotless. Her oldest girl, now a drum major and concertmistres
s of an orchestra, missed one rehearsal and got it.
Best of luck with yours. If they were mine I'd so go for supervised visitation.