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AHHA Holly you crack me up.  Of course I would get upset if he didnt like your advice!!

This is a very typical behavior of his mom.  She was VERY bad at getting in our buisness when we first got married. He is her oldest son and the first to get married.  We had a long discussion saying that if we needed to vent we wouldnt go to family but to friends or at least not our parents.

This is really the first time in a long time that he has gone to his mom.  I also think that it started out just saying "O mom you will never believe what happened last night"  than it got blown out of proportion. 

He called me alittle while ago and said that he was sorry for what he said but we still needed to discuss the dogs.  I simply told him that I wasnt going to give any of them up and I wasnt going to put them simply as outside dogs because that isnt fair to them. 

He agreed but says that we need to figure something out.
I told him that the baby is only 5 weeks old and that this is still an adjustment period.  Nothing bad has happened except for the other night. 

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I completely agree!! I KNOW Baxter.  He is almost 3 yrs old and has never even so much looked at us the wrong way.  He LOVES ppl and kids.  I have a 4 yr old nephew and a 2 yr old niece and they have both been around him and he is fine. 

What happened the other night was a complete accident and I am not ready to give up my dog for it.  I know there is going to be some training that I need to go through with ALL the dogs and Payton.  But I am willing to do that and only after that will I even consider another option if it looks like it would be better but not until than which I dont forsee happening. 

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Thanks everyone for the advice.

Well the talk started about the dogs and ended in a HUGE fight about his Mother keeping her nose out of OUR buisness!!!  So we arent speaking right now.  I will let yall now what is going to come of all this.

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Just wanted to let everyone know that Baxter is back home from th vet. 

I am wondering how my Husband is going to be with him when he returns home from work?!?

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I completely agree.  Everything he is saying came straight from his mother.  She called me telling me that I would be a bad mom if I kept a "vicious" dog around HER granddaughter. 

I proceeded to tell her that MY daughter wasnt around a vicious dog.  Just NORMAL dogs that react to different situations.  Well I am NOT getting rid of any of the dogs.  I refuse.  I am the one that deals with them day in and day out. Hubby goes out of town too much for him to know what they are really like.

We are going to discuss things when he gets home in alittle while.   

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After last nights events, my husband ws talking to his MOTHER about it.  Now dont get me wrong but my MIL and I get along fine but now he is trying to talk my husband into making me get rid of the dogs!!!!

I am livid!! >:( >:( >:(  I know it probably worries her about what happened last night but she doesnt understand.  She told him that they had a dog for a year when he was two and the dog "bit" him.  Which I found out was a nip because she had broken her leg and he grabbed it.  She immediatley had the dog put down. 

How do I let him see that having the dogs around the baby is a great thing?  He said that maybe we should talk about it and see our options but there is no other option for me. I grew up with dogs and was fine why cant my daughter.  He said that we have 3 options. 

1. Make all 3 outside dogs. (They have never been outside a full day in their lives)
2. Downsize (Get rid of two and only keep one)
3. Get rid of all of them together and wait until Payton is older to get a dog. 

Which is funny because his mother just sent me an email telling me those three things.  This means that she is telling him he needs to do this. Not just 3 days ago he was telling me how great it was going to be that our daughter wasnt going to be scared of dogs because she is growing up with them.

HELP!!!!

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Well the vet just called.  Baxter is fine.  They gave him  a very good exam and made sure he wasnt hurt.  They also took blood to make sure he wasnt sick without showing any symptoms.  He is fine. 

So that just makes me think that it was an accident. 

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Thank you everyone for advice.  I very much appreciate it. 

After posting last night hubby and I had a long talk.  We came to the conclusion that probably Baxter thought my husband was Buble who loves to jump up on Baxter's back.
Baxter will sometimes growl at Buble when he does this.

Not that it was okay for Baxter to have bitten hubby.  We also took him into the vet this morning to make sure that he isnt sick or hurt.  We are waiting to pick him up after they evaluate him. 

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General Board for Big Dogs with Big Paws / Baxter bit my husband!!!!!!!
« on: August 18, 2008, 08:10:59 pm »
I dont know what to do!!!   :'( :'(  We had let the dogs out for thier evening playtime and it started to rain. 

Hubby went to let them in from the covered porch.  He always picks them up and carries them to our laundry room where we dry them off.  He went to go pick up Baxter and he turned around and bit him on his hand.  He drew blood!!! 

Hubby said that we will give him one more chance but if he ever does that again we are putting him down.  He said that we cant have an unpredictable dog around a newborn and I do completely agree with that but I dont know what to do. 

Does anyone have any suggestions?  We do not have any dog behaviorists around us for 3 hours.  We had to call about a friends dog and found that out. 

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Do you wipe out th mineral oil after you clean their ears or leave whatever excess there and they shake it out?
Probably a dumb question!!

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Bernese Mountain Dog Pictures / Re: Introduction and Puppy Pic
« on: July 26, 2008, 07:30:47 pm »
Welcome you will love it here!!

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Anything Non-Dog Related / Re: Baby Payton is born!!!!!!!
« on: July 20, 2008, 07:10:06 pm »
Well Boo Boo and Baxter met Payton for the first time this evening. I decided to do it right after I had fed her so she wouldnt be fussy. It went alright.  Buble was more interested in pulling her blanket off of her and Baxter just smelled her and then wouldnt come near her.

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Anything Non-Dog Related / Re: Baby Payton is born!!!!!!!
« on: July 19, 2008, 07:43:45 am »
WOOHOO!!!!!!  Congratulation s!!!  She's so precious!!

When my friend brought home her baby, her dog ran away too; now she can't wait to come in and see what she's doing and of course try to steal the baby food from her chin!!

Yea Hubby had to go back out of town last night and I was talking to him about Bell's experience with Payton.  HE said "Oh she will love her when she is in a highchair eating food and drops it".  But I guess look at it this way, I will have the cleanest floors in Georgia!!!! ;D

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Anything Non-Dog Related / Re: Baby Payton is born!!!!!!!
« on: July 18, 2008, 08:01:31 pm »
Well I introduced Bell to Payton tonight.  She didnt act like I thought she would. I was sure tha tshe would be in love with her but instead she is a little leary of her. 

I held Payton and let Bell out of her crate and brought her to the den.  I let her smell a blanket that Payton has been using today and then she came over to Payton.  She smelled her legs and hands.  I wouldnt let her get to close to her face yet.  I just kept praising her telling her how good a=she was and then Payton cried and that was enough for Bell.  She went and got right back in her crate. 

How do yall think she will be with her? She wasnt ugly just a little concerned.   

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Anything Non-Dog Related / Re: Baby Payton is born!!!!!!!
« on: July 18, 2008, 10:40:05 am »
I feel really bad.  The fur babies really have not "met" her yet.  They have sniffed her over the fence and have seen her while walking to thier crates. 

We have had TONS of ppl in the house and they have been kind of overwhelmed with that.  So during the time everyone is over and holding her they have been outside playing in thier new pool and then have been coming in after everyone leaves which has been at bedtime. 

I guess it is a good thing though. Thier "room" is right across the hall from hers and they have heard her cry and make a whole bunch of noises during the night and have not barked yet. 

Everyone leaves tomorrow so that will probably be the day they officially meet Miss Payton. 

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