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Anything Non-Dog Related / Re: ARGGGHHHH I hate old senile people!
« on: October 01, 2005, 03:51:10 am »
Oh my, I really feel for you. I really, really do. She sounds exactly like my grandmother... even down to the picking on your dad part. My grandmother's favorite put down is saying I'm just like my dad...which makes me proud, as he was the kindest and most intelligent person I've known. From your post, I'm guessing that her behavior isn't necessarily age related but maybe is something that has become worse as she's gotten older? i.e. It sounds like this is more than an elderly woman having a bad day.
The only advice I have is to get distance from her as soon as you can. If you can't do that, stop the verbal abuse right now. If she is hassling you, tell her respectfully that you will not discuss (insert topic) with her. And stick to that. People have a way of provoking discussion. Don't let her do that to you. We don't have to answer questions simply because we are asked them.
If she is verbally abusive when you are with her, leave the house for a bit. That behavior is unhealthy to be around, and you need to make it stop now. She absolutely will not change, but you can change how you react to her.
My positive thoughts are with you. I hope you feel better and can find some way to deal with your grandmother that is healthy for you.
Jen
The only advice I have is to get distance from her as soon as you can. If you can't do that, stop the verbal abuse right now. If she is hassling you, tell her respectfully that you will not discuss (insert topic) with her. And stick to that. People have a way of provoking discussion. Don't let her do that to you. We don't have to answer questions simply because we are asked them.
If she is verbally abusive when you are with her, leave the house for a bit. That behavior is unhealthy to be around, and you need to make it stop now. She absolutely will not change, but you can change how you react to her.
My positive thoughts are with you. I hope you feel better and can find some way to deal with your grandmother that is healthy for you.
Jen