Most of you know that I have been after my hubby for a second dog...actually a mastiff. He is holding his ground and sticking with no. It finally occured to me last night that not only will I not get a mastiff I will be getting no more dogs
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While my hubby told me he liked dogs; I have finally figured it out; he likes other peoples dogs.
He also isn't fond of Harley, our last dog Stoli he picked and they were very close, Stoli also wasn't the most behaved dog but we didn't have children at the time so she came everywhere with us (we also lived in a small town where everyone knew everyone and she was allowed on golf courses, bars etc). When Stoli passed he wanted another Springer Spaniel and I wanted Harley, so since he picked Stoli I figured it was my turn and that he would learn to love him....didn't happen.
Let me also say that Harley doesn't listen at all. He has been to 2 or 3 different obiedience schools and went to a private trainer (he listens very well to HER). I know I'm not the best trainer but I also have 2 very active kids and just thought his personality was adorable so he doesn't bother me the way he bothers hubby.
I have thought this over so many times but last night it finally hit me this is my last dog and if I could find him a better home than mine I might have to give him up (no I'm not looking). I just feel badly that I'm the only one that loves him unconditionall
y the way he should be loved; the kids (*8 & 14) like him when it is convenient. I can't recall hubby every sitting around and petting him; or throwing the ball or playing with him. Harley also whines when I am out of sight, but I wouldn't be out of sight so much if he were allowed upstairs, but he isn't.
I feel like the joy of having a dog has left me. My hubby asked why I was crying this morning; I didn't want to tell him but finally did - he of course thought it was the most ridiculous reason to be so upset. I know when Harley's time comes I will be dogless or hubby will feel bad and get me another dog that he won't acknowledge. I want to you know that he isn't mean to Harley doesn't hit him or anything but he just isn't nice, I feel badly for Harley
, he deserves better.
Sorry this is so long but family and friends will think I'm nuts for being so distraught over this.
Randy