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Anything Non-Dog Related / Little update on me
« on: September 18, 2007, 07:11:10 pm »
Well I got a job a petsmart and I really like it. I have only worked there 3 days so for though. I have already seen 2 Great Danes and got to love on them, one was only 6 months, and talked with a lady who has a 6 yr old Dane. I really enjoy talking to the people who come in, I really think I am going to enjoy this job. Also both my daughters are in Cherleading, so that also keeps me busy. Its nice being kept busy, cause I dont have much time to think about the Divorce. My youngest Daughter, who is my Ex's Daughter, has ben having some health problems since the divorce and Dr's think it has to do with stress and what not. So we are keeping an eye on her and if she doesnt start getting better she will need to go see a speicialist. I feel so bad for her as she is only 5 yrs and her Daddy doesnt call her too often and what not and she was such a daddy's girl :(Well I just wanted to pop in and say hi to everyone and give an update. Give all those big babies hugs and kisses for me 
I just have too much extra time on my hands.....
So he gets Skyla and we are both pissed at each other. I called him to talk to Skyla and he turned his ringer off, so I nicely texted him and told him I would make sure my lawyer knew he wouldnt let me talk to my daughter when he had her. Oh I got a phone call pretty fast after that!! Talked to Skyla and then Ben so nicely, not really just being funny, told me I wasnt going to go see the movie with him. That made me very mad cause it was my idea to take Skyla, so he put Skyla on the phone and she told me she just wanted it to be her and her daddy so I stopped fighting. I sat in my room crying the whole night cause I really wanted to see that movie with my daughter. Skyla gets home and tells me about her day and told me Daddy took a friend to the movie with them, a girl friend!!!!!!!!!!! I was hurt, mad, you name it I had every feeling in me!! He let some complete stranger enjoy this movie with Skyla and took it away from me 
. So needless to say we werent on talking terms anymore. So monday night I tryed calling and texting him to let him know I was going to the house to get the boys ready for their new homes, well surprise surprise he didnt answer or reply. So I just showed up at 6:20 in the morning and he had no idea I was coming!!!! He was so upset at me, told me i didnt respect him for not telling him I was coming over and next time we go to court he will request Im not allowed in the house anymore only to get my things!!!! Then off to work he went. I walked around the house, now this makes me think he is seeing some one else...a single red rose on the kitchen table, but Ben bought that for his self, he started smoking and leaves them in a pile in the front yard, well 2 of them arent the kind he smokes, he rented movies but rented them Saturday, but why would he if he was out of town Saturday, and the last thing is he informed me he wanted me gone before he came home and I could never spend the night at the house again!!!! And also he is still threating me of taking Skyla from me. I am such a bad mother and blah blah blah but yet he has no problems leaving her with me 6 days a week and just getting her on Sundays? And rarely ever calls her. And this will be his first saturdy off since we split, do you think he is coming to get Skyla friday night and spend the whole weekend with her?
and back home with the little ones. Dont get me wrong I love all 3 of them, but OMG do they ever drive me crazy!!! All I do all day is trip over them 
. The only one that is mine is the Shih Tzu, Gucci, the chihuahuas are my mothers.
