Unfortunately I don't handle it as well as I wish I would. But as you know it gets difficult.
I wanted to attach a few photos - thats why I didn't post until today.
I am going to PM you because I don't want to bore everyone with my behavioral lessons (or lack thereof!!)
Hopefully these pictures will attach - the first one is her in her long sleeve shirt, and sweater vest with faux fur collar that she insisted on wearing the first day of school even though it was close to 80 degrees.
The second one is her kyaking on a lake - I wanted her to stay teathered (sp) to the dock but she pissed and moaned so much her father set her freee - I was having a stroke that she was just going to paddle away!!!