Welcome to the most addicting site on the internet ( for those of us with big paws anyways) I have to agree, we will help you with working on the husband part. I am Paige, and there are a lot of bigs here at the house. Permanently there are now 2 Great Danes ( a third is going to his forever home today) 3 Great Pyrenees, a Newfie mix and some littles, including a malnourished, messed up little shepherd that we just rescued.
I am looking forward to seeing more pics of Heffner and I have to agree- what a great name for a Great Dane.