i know you love your dogs, there's no question about that, but. if your vet is reluctant about doing everything he needs to do, are you sure that everything that can be done is being done? we interview vets before we use them, and take our dogs to meet them before we even sign up for a check up. that way, i can see how our dogs react to them and i can also get a feel for the vet. we've managed to find some vets that our dogs wouldn't let within 20 ft without barking or growling and others that our dogs climbed right up in their laps giving kisses. maybe if you go and meet with a few vets you can find one that you can trust, and your baby will get better treatment. sometimes if the dog knows the people don't like dealing with them or are aggravated over working with them, it can cause unnecessary stress / nervousness and bad behavior when a person who loves the dog can do the same thing with little or no problems out of them.