I have used boric acid powder in my house when I had carpets. It's save for the cats and it shouldn't hurt your birds at all. I would move them out of the room when you sprinkle it down but other than that it should be fine. I am going to use diatomaceous earth in my yard this season to see if it stops the influx of fireants that I get every year.
For bees and wasps, I keep benadryl on hand. Kaila is notorious for eating wasps and bees. She got hold of one in her kennel in the house one day. I came home to find her muzzle all swollen and gave her benadryl and the swelling came down. Just watch that they don't have any issues breathing and the benadryl will work great.