Both Jeff and I are going through the whole spectrum of emotions. Jeffrey is so young, only 19, and it seems like he is way too young to be taking such a step. At the same time though, this is a fantastic opportunity for him with this job and he has been handling this very maturely. He has been more responsible about researching the area, going over all the pros and cons about whether to buy a home or rent, he's already contacted real estate agents and is planning a trip down there with his girlfriend, Lena (she's going with him) to look at places. He's covered more bases than I ever did the many times I have moved. And yet, I worry because it seems we can't even get the kid to remember to take the trash out to the curb twice a week.
Jeffrey and Lena came home with stuff for their new place, like a dining set and such. Jeff was really annoyed that night and snapping at everyone. I cornered him and told him to stop being such a grouch to me and the girls just because it's starting to sink in that his son is moving away. He looked away and mumbled "You don't know that" which is his way of saying I'm right and he just doesn't want to admit it. LOL! Anyway, he's been dealing better and made sure to tell Jeffrey how proud he is of him.
And who knows, he might be back in two years. The local plant he works at is closing and they are planning on re-opening in two years. Jeffrey is climbing the ladder quickly and chose to go to VA to retain his employment with the company. It's a wise choice.
Who says you have to go through childbirth to brag about your kids!!
