Okay, here's the scoop, and this is really embarrasing for our family but. My sister has a drug problem. It's been going on for some years now, and since she's been diagnosed with Crones Disease and Interstitial Cistitus (sp?) it's gotten worse. She was in an abusive relationship, that I had thought she had gotten out of, and now it seems she's right back there again. The person that she's with does drugs, and goes so far as to physically and verbally abuse my sister. None of this she knows that I know, I only know from hearsay. My sister is addicted to Ketamine, Cocaine, and I don't know what else. She completely denies it, but we've found Vials (used for containing and transporting powdered drugs) in her car, her room, her purse, etc. Everytime we confront her about it she goes into this "Everybody hates me, I'm holding on to them for a friend, why can't you guys just trust me" rant, and makes my mom feel guilty for even going through her things in the first place. Well My sister went out the other night, and hasn't been home yet, but she forgot her cell phone here. I went though it, I know I shouldn't have, but I'm really worried about her, and I really do just want to help her. Anyways, I went through the text messages and there were messages to and from people regarding the buying and selling of Cocaine, Ketamine, and "pills" I don't know if these are like Extacy pills or maybe black market pain killers. Also messages about the changing hands of large amounts of money. So I took a list of all the names and numbers that were regarding drugs and I called Crime Stoppers and gave them the names and numbers and what drugs I thought they were involved in dealing in. I need to know if I did the right thing. I really just want to help her, but she refuses to admit that she has a problem. Oh and I should probably also mentin that her docter is no longer perscribing pain meds to her because her last tox screen came back positive for Cocaine, which she said she only did like once and that was 6 months ago (Which is not possible, because cocaine only stays in your system for a max of 72 hours and that's if you do ALOT of it.).
What should I be doing right now, I'm having a difficult time making dicisions, my mother can't do it, she is so stressed out I think she may have a heart attact or stroke any day now. I know that I really shouldn't be discussing this with anyone else, but I guess who better to tlak to than people I've never met before, who've only ever offered supportive advise before. I really need some help with this though, it's taken over our families lives, my mom can't concentrate at work, I'm having difficulties concentrating at school, and my sister just keeps going to parties, and spending money, and I just don't know what else. It's a horrible feeling to not trust your own sister, I have to keep my car locked at night, and my room locked during the day, I can't leave her alone with the dogs because I know that she can't be trusted with them.
