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Offline MommaBear

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Bear and I are moving on....
« on: March 23, 2008, 04:02:27 pm »
Well after a brutal few months, Chris and I have decided to break up. Good news that Bear dog is coming with me...bad news is I am stuck with packing up all my stuff and likely going back to live at my parents place :(. I hope Bear's daycare lady will still look after but its a 15min drive away so not sure :(. I feel like sh*t today but its the best for both of us. Hopefully I will be able to get a place for Bear and I sometime soon.
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Re: Bear and I are moving on....
« Reply #1 on: March 23, 2008, 04:11:34 pm »
oh good luck to you two!! We're all sending good vibes from here. Go you!
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Re: Bear and I are moving on....
« Reply #2 on: March 23, 2008, 04:31:31 pm »
Break ups suck. I'm sorry.  :(
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Re: Bear and I are moving on....
« Reply #3 on: March 23, 2008, 04:39:51 pm »
OHH, just think of your parents as a stepping stone to moving on to better things.  Sometimes to get where we need to be we have to take (what seems to us at the time) a step back.  Good luck to you!!
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Re: Bear and I are moving on....
« Reply #4 on: March 23, 2008, 05:39:07 pm »
I just want to wish you all the best in this next stage in your life. You and Bear will have lots of adventures coming up!

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Re: Bear and I are moving on....
« Reply #5 on: March 23, 2008, 06:26:01 pm »
Thanks everyone. I am starting to pack now,,,its SO hard. I will probably take tomorrow off work again and get everything done and over with. My parents are unfortunately driving back from NFLD and have no idea...they don't even have a cell phone to call them on  :'(

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Re: Bear and I are moving on....
« Reply #6 on: March 23, 2008, 06:27:52 pm »
well first of all, good luck in your new life.  It's tough, but it'll be good eventually.  You'll be fine soon.  Being single again is a ok.  :)  
after the packing and unpacking, things will look and feel different.  Repeat after me... It'll be ok!!!  I made it...you can too.  Email me if you want to talk about it.  
And that's good that you get custody of Bear.  that will help you through some tough times.

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Re: Bear and I are moving on....
« Reply #7 on: March 23, 2008, 06:29:02 pm »
I wish you a ton of happiness in your NEW future. Break ups are always hard but just think of what lies ahead......a whole new life! :)

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Re: Bear and I are moving on....
« Reply #8 on: March 23, 2008, 08:15:46 pm »
i am sorry for your loss...everyth ing happens for a reason...so perhaps it is a good thing...you are lucky you got to keep the pup..he will keep you sane!! ;D       :-[

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Re: Bear and I are moving on....UPDATE
« Reply #9 on: March 28, 2008, 06:18:49 pm »
Bear and I are staying in the house! I was able to buy chris out. YIPPEE

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Re: Bear and I are moving on....UPDATE
« Reply #10 on: March 28, 2008, 06:24:02 pm »
Bear and I are staying in the house! I was able to buy chris out. YIPPEE

That is great news...its funny how things work out  ;) Good luck  ;D

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Re: Bear and I are moving on....
« Reply #11 on: March 28, 2008, 06:32:07 pm »

HALLELUJAH!!!!!


I'm sorry you're going through this. But I'm ever so happy that you and Bear can stay in your Home!

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Re: Bear and I are moving on....
« Reply #12 on: March 28, 2008, 06:40:28 pm »
that is great news.  :)  It's All yours now.  you'll be fine.

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Re: Bear and I are moving on....
« Reply #13 on: March 28, 2008, 09:37:41 pm »
I'm so happy that you & Bear are able to keep your home.  Here's to a new beginning & a happy future for both of you!  ((hugs))
Marie

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Re: Bear and I are moving on....
« Reply #14 on: March 28, 2008, 11:19:59 pm »
I for one vote for that scarey thrill feeling in your stomach that only comes when wonderfully new things are in your horizon and you are about to plummet into them like being on a rollercoaster.  :)   I know I should be sorry about the sad part of this...but I'm more geeked about all the wonderful things ahead of you.  It's been 370 days since I moved away from my now ex and it's been the best year ever.  All the time I was with the pupper who helped me get through it.  (OK I was not heartbroken about my split, but still...there was some adjustment).  It was exciting and new and I reflect on my new life and all the changes it brought every day.  I tell Grace almost every night that it's been a wonderful year and thank her for having it with me.  :) 
You will be just fine.  and I'm sure when it stops hurting, you'll know that too.