I agree to board if possible. I plan on doing that with Nigel if it is at all possible and send him to my parents during her second week b/c that is usually when his hormones go out of control.
and yeah the whining is horrible!! Posey was crated at night and Nigel had to be in the bedroom. If he was crated (on another floor) he would cry and cry and whine and cry all night long.
And of course they go out side separately. he was crated while she was out and when you brought her back in he would literally start screaming! For those familiar with basenjis screaming, even though he is a rat terrier, that is what he sounds like. As my friend called it "baby in a blender" noise.