As Holly says, everything needs to sloooow down.
Amber, Payton is a little over a month old correct? You've still got plenty of hormones working their way out of your system. A new baby is quite an adjustment to a family no matter how prepared one feels, not to mention lack of sleep. Emotions must be off the chart.
Hubs is a new dad and probably overwhelmed by the feelings of responsibility to protect his child. He may also feel a bit left out - your attentions taken up by the baby and now the dogs.
Mother-in-law only heard her adult son was bitten and panicked. We don't know her. Is it typical for her to be involved in your personal lives? If it is atypical, acknowledge her concerns and let her know you will never let Payton be in harms way.
I'm not saying hubs should have gone to momma. More to the point, mom never should have told everyone what to do. But Amber honey, you did the same thing going to BPO. You were upset and needed a place to talk about it. You've gotten so many responses and most of us are strangers.
Everyone needs to settle down. When hubs gets home just hug each other for a bit. No ultimatums, no kicking to the curb, and no discussing the latest events. Emotions are too high. Agree to talk about it in a few days.
For now, hold little Payton to your chest and rock her to sleep. Feel her warmth - smell her babiness - enjoy her being. I guarantee this will calm you down.
