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Offline dober_gurl

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I'm really sad..
« on: November 06, 2005, 05:01:23 pm »
Yesterday a girl I knew was shot and killed.. I didn't know her to well but I've talked to her in school. Her story was her, her boyfriend, and their friend were hanging out. Well her boyfriend and her were doing stuff in the bedroom and their friend got mad because they were supposed to be hanging out together, so he walked into the bedroom to tell them he was leaving and had the gun in his hand, he was messing with the gun and accidently dropped it, caught it in mid air, and pulled the trigger. The bullet bounced off of the girl's shoulder and hit her in the head. My friend was there last night when they pulled her off life support. It was really sad and her boyfriend wants to kill the guy now. I feel bad for everyone and I just think it was so stupid to be playing with that gun!

Then to make matters worse for me, my mom had my cockatiel, Keeley put to sleep. Really hard to deal with right now...

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Re: I'm really sad..
« Reply #1 on: November 06, 2005, 05:05:23 pm »
Oh, sweetie, I am so sorry for all your losses.  I am around today if you need me... 
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« Reply #2 on: November 06, 2005, 05:07:27 pm »
Megan...I am sooo sorry for your losses.  I can only imagine what you are going through.  I'm 28 now, but lost 2 really good friends in a car accident when I was 18.  It was the first time that I'd lost anyone close to me that was around my age.  It was really hard.

If you need anything, please let us know. 

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« Reply #3 on: November 06, 2005, 05:19:21 pm »
I'm so sorry Megan. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Hang in there and follow Jenn's advice of cuddling with Maggie. Things will get better but let us know if there is anything you need us to do.
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Re: I'm really sad..
« Reply #4 on: November 06, 2005, 05:21:12 pm »
I am so sorry to hear this. I know I'm new to the site and you don't know me. But I am here if  you need to talk. I have lost a few friends to accidents and 2 to suicide. I know what its like to lose someone you're close to.
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Re: I'm really sad..
« Reply #5 on: November 06, 2005, 05:22:41 pm »
Ugh that's terrible and so much to take on all-at-once.  I'm really sorry you're going through this right now.  Try to take solace in the good memories...
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« Reply #6 on: November 06, 2005, 05:42:25 pm »
OMG!!  Hun, I'm soooo sorry! :'(  Two tragedies at once is hard to take for ANYBODY!!  I'm here if you need anything!  I'll be thinking of you. :-*

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« Reply #7 on: November 06, 2005, 06:07:41 pm »
Oh megan, I am so sorry. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers today.
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« Reply #8 on: November 06, 2005, 07:12:15 pm »
Awww HOney! :'(  Just to sound like a copy cat you know I'm here.  I hate replying to these because nothing anyone says ever makes you feel better, but I want you to feel better.  So insert whatever would be perfect to say in here OK?

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« Reply #9 on: November 06, 2005, 07:12:27 pm »
Awe, i am soooo sorry!  you are in my thoughts and prayers!!!
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« Reply #10 on: November 06, 2005, 07:17:13 pm »
Megan! That's terrible! I know I've been away for awhile, I'm totally behind on everything...d id I see that you got a new puppy? Tell me about him. He should bring lotsa joy and happiness to you in these crappy times.

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« Reply #11 on: November 06, 2005, 08:09:22 pm »
Megan, I am so sorry.  Just know we are here if you need to talk.

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« Reply #12 on: November 06, 2005, 08:11:41 pm »
Megan,
Last year my daughter's good friend lost her husband in a similar gun accident. She and all her friends were devastated. When you are young it is easy to feel like you are invincable and will live forever and then something happens that justs slaps you in the face with reality.  The bigger tragedy would be if all of her friends didn't learn a lesson from this and it sounds like you have.  The boyfriend can't do anything to that boy that would be worse than how he must feel. He will have to live with that the rest of his life. My thoughts and prayers are  with you and your friends. You are doing the right thing by talking, keep talking and encourage your friends to do the same, God Bless..
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« Reply #13 on: November 06, 2005, 08:24:07 pm »
I am so sorry to hear about your losses Megan  :'( In times like this, words often fail me, but I hope you know that we are all thinking of you
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Re: I'm really sad..
« Reply #14 on: November 06, 2005, 08:46:06 pm »
Oh, Megan, what a tragic accident!  How awful for everybody concerned!!!  I echo everyone else's sentiments here.  Sometime things are just too overwhelming to be understood.  What an awful way to learn a good lesson.  Guns just shouldn't be messed around with.  I hope the boyfriend stays away from them!  And then to lose a beloved pet!  AWFUL!  AWFUL!!!

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