Ang, I am so sorry to hear all the sorrows you have to go through. I agree with everyone, your grandpa is hurting, most of us have lost someone extremely close and yes it hurts and yes you get angry and bitter, BUT you dont lash out and hurt the ones you love, they become even more important to you.
I dont know when your grandpa is going to Florida, but if it is not too long until then, I would arrange for Nee to be somewhere, maybe stay with Moni (Moni you are a real sweetheart) until he is gone, then stay in that house for awhile WITH Nee. And that should give you time to get somewhere to live. I am ALL FOR the idea with an Ang./Nee fund raising.
And dont say Katrina destroyed for lots of people and this is only you. Everyone in Katrina was an individual catastrophy. So your catastrophy isnt one bit less heart breaking. You love dogs, would you only help the ones who came in a bunch or would you rescue even the single one dog? yup thought so lol..... So there goes your "one one" theory
And grumpy, I want to adopt too, AND not that I know how old you are Ang. but I am sure I didnt even have to be very young when I had you hahahahaha.
Grumpy.... you cant have all the fun, maybe we can split her?
or do one week each lol.
Hang in there hun, and I think the fund for nee's mom is a wonderful idea, and will totally contribute to that one.
Hugs
Marit
