When we were married, my Grandmother was really sick with terminal cancer, and instead of a honeymoon we went to see her, and stayed with her for a week. I never regretted it, because that time was priceless to me, and Dale was sweet enough to understand.
But then the kids came along, and the house and bills.... Now we have been married 20 years, and still never had a honeymoon.
So last summer we took one of those huge water cooler bottles and put it in the bedroom, and all spare change goes in there. We are saving for a cruise for our 25th. I don't know how much is in there but it is 1/4 full.
If we fill it before the time is up, I'll start a bank account, and start to fill it again...Hopefu lly, it will be Bon Voyage in 5 years!
Stella