That just burns me up!! What nerve! I'm feeling your frustration, because just the other day on a doberman forum I was on, someone started a BIG issue about how my dog's ears werent cut the same style as their dog was, and flat out told me that my dog was "unattractive"!!!!ooooohhhh, that made me M*A*D!!! SO I know how you feel when people who think they know just totally everything will start to pick your dog apart, and they dont have a clue what they are talking about! I personally LOVE the name Bear--That's what my wife and I call each other instead of dear (deer)! Just ignore the ignorant woman and give your big ol' Bear a big ol' bear hug for me!!!