How about saving money until you have enough for an emergency dog surgery or two and then asking again? You will feel lots worse if you get a pup, it has an accident, and you have to put it down because of budget issues.
Our rule is $5,000.00 in the bank per dog. So far, every dog I have had drained their accounts years before they crossed the bridge. Cody had his down to $0.00 before he was two.
I feel your pain. My hubby won't let me have any cats. Something about me being allergic...
Side note from me, the risk manager, the $5.000.00 is AFTER saving a minimum of six months of expenses.
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Wow that is very impressive - When our springer got sick toward the end (although we didn't know it was the end) I opened a credit card just for her bills - I think it wound up at around 2,000 many vets around here are soooo expensive. But our vet is loving and great to me and my dogs so I hope for the best and pay it.
Ali, I am in very much the same position as you - my hubby doesn't want another dog - and doesn't really adore Harley (who is a BIG pain in the neck). It is hurtful when our spouses don't take our feelings into consideration. My hubbys reasoning isn't money it is the amount of work he needs to do for the dog (he does all the poop patrol and some of the vacuuming), but still I do everything for the skin kids. Anyway, I think hubby would go for a small dog - or maybe a rescue but not what I want and since I am older than some on this board I figure this is my last shot at a big dog and when I'm even older I can switch to a cute little dog.
My advise to you would be to hold on and try not to bring it up as often and make sure that you are taking responsiblity for Tani and hopefully, he will come around one day when you find the perfect dog...that is what I'm hoping my hubby does.