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Anything Non-Dog Related / Re: Facebook Blast from the Past....Need Advice!
« on: June 14, 2008, 09:15:55 am »
No no no no no no...It's great that you were honest with your husband, but evident from his response that while he wants to please you, he doesn't want you to go. PLUS, and this is horribly cynical and judgemental of me, probably because of my history working in the criminal mental health field for sooo long - the guy is smart, but probably bi-polar. Sounds like he was pretty cruel. You broke up with him (sure, he cheated, but you're the one that dumped him), you told his parents when he was suicidal. How can you be certain that his TRUE reason for wanting to meet is to "chat" and not for, well, revenge. It sounds dramatic, I know - I said I was cynical. He could have very malevolent reasons for luring you to a meeting. I'd stay away....FAR away. If he needs to apologize, he can do it via email. That's as close as he should get.